I like my proposed title better…
If death is such a great “career move,” why isn’t Sexton just as famous, and fetishized?
Sexton was certainly more beautiful than Plath, whose (peroxide-prodded) blond hair covered a multitude of sins. Although maybe that was the trouble? Sexton’s glamorous “Mrs. Robinson” style isn’t as achievably aspirational as Plath’s barefaced, housewifely horsiness. That, donning a fur coat and gulping a highball of vodka, Sexton gassed herself in her garage rather than the kitchen, like Plath (who left milk and cookies for the kids), is weirdly emblematic. (One thinks of a pagan queen, buried along with her chariot, all the better to whiz through the afterlife. Whereas the mental image of Plath, kneeling into her crappy British cooker, evokes the Pompeian pathetic.)
Plus: Sexton didn’t off herself soon enough to suit. What is 46 when you are 27? And 1963’s distance from 1974, in cultural terms, might as well be half a century.
Rose Red to Plath’s Snow White, Sexton was her own Byron.
And whatever feminists tell one another, and us, that’s just not as cool a story.